How to Make Your Wife Stop Nagging

Last Updated on January 7, 2021

Maybe she nags because no one listened to her when she was younger, or probably she’s trying to get things done and needs your help. That’s why talking with the willingness to understand each other is very important in your relationship.

Talk about it and try to understand where each of you is coming from.

#3 – Insist on Change

If your wife just won’t stop, you should calmly demand some sort of resolution. But if you’ve already tried to communicate and probably even tried counseling, then it may be time to take a firm decision.

Consider whether the nagging level is a deal breaker for you. If it’s not, you can keep trying to make your wife listen to you. And if you just can’t take it anymore, you should make your thought be clearly understood.

Try saying, ‘I can’t keep on living with this stress. If you can’t change this unhealthy behavior, I’m going to have to take some time off from our relationship.’

#4 – Give Up Fighting

Do not fight; it only leads to more complex issues. The best thing you can do is not react at all, and lead your wife’s emotions instead. By changing your perception on her nagging and by being emotionally in control, you can lead her emotions smoothly to what you want it to be. You have the power to influence your wife’s emotions.

If she is really upset, you should stay calm. If she feels hurt or scared, don’t show vulnerability, but rather provide protection and make her feel safe. When we feel weak we need someone who’d be our strength and make us feel better. Remember to skip the fighting and aim for a happy household. What’s bad for you is also bad for her.

#5 – Give Love and Affection

Sometimes when things get boring or the romance fades away, irritation sets in and you begin to notice all the bad habits in your spouse. You start thinking that you can no longer neglect your partner’s bad habits and this is how the nagging begins. It will be wise to keep your romance alive for a healthy marriage.