C. Booth
Last Updated on January 7, 2021
Do you ever wonder why not everyone likes you as soon as they meet you? (Even though you’re an awesome person and everyone should want to be friends with you.)
Basically, you’ve only got a few seconds to make another person want to spend more time with you as well as want to see you again. In fact, every little thing matters.
We all have a story about how we thought a certain person was weird or mean the first time we met, but realized later that she or he is actually the nicest or coolest friend ever.
We rounded up many scientific findings on specific behaviors that make people dislike you immediately, both online and in real life.
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#1 – Sharing too many Photos on Facebook
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If you usually share snapshots of your food, shoes, cousin’s graduation, beach vacation, and dog doing random stuff all in the same day, you may want to stop. According to a recent study, posting too many photos on Facebook can damage your real-life relationships.
“This is because people (excluding close friends and relatives) can’t relate well to those who constantly share photos of themselves,” researchers explained. Also, relatives don’t like it when you share too many photos of friends, who, in turn, don’t like it when you’ve got too many family photos.
Although sharing is caring, too much sharing can damage your relationships.
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#2 – Early Revelations of Super Personal
Stuff in a Relationship
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Generally, individuals like each other more after sharing confidences. However, being self-disclosed is a great way to make friends as an adult.
Psychologists claim that revealing super personal information, for example, that your brother is cheating on his wife, while you’re still getting to know someone can make you seem weird, insecure, and decrease your chances of likability.
You should never cross the reasonable limits of personal. According to a study from Illinois State University, sticking to simple and pleasant details about your favorite childhood memories and your hobbies can make you seem warmer and more likable.
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